Alysha is still here? What?

Hey, lots of ridiculously stressful things going on right now.
(Copied and pasted from somewhere else)

" My dad needs to decide if he wants a little camera in his lung, to take a sample
of his lung to see what’s up in there. It runs a high risk of collapsing said lung.

My grandma was just diagnosed with bone cancer and lung cancer.

My mom was a bad ass when she was a kid, went pool jumping every other night, but wont even let me stay outside alone to play cello.

Mom might shave her head when my grandma starts radiation"

Also, my little cousins dad is a complete loser, I will expand more later. Dior also has rotting feet, and he feet have been done for months so it is pretty much as if you were wearing high heels and cut off the heel and tried walking... Ridiculous farrier. That's changing.

I am so sorry it is so stressful Alysha!

About your dad, yes a collapsed lung is scary but it can be healed, they hook up a tube to a machine to keep it inflated, my mom had this happen because of something else. Just if they offer him a choice in tubes go for the bigger one.

I am sorry about your grandma, it's always hard when we hear those things and good on your mom for wanting to support her by shaving her head. If you have really long hair and want to do something similar you can always donate your hair for wigs.

...I don't think I would let Marilyn and Gwendolyn stay outside alone to play cello after a certain time. Parents always say things like "When I was growing up..." Well the truth is when they were growing up tihngs weren't as dangerous as they are now. Try to see it from her point of view..you are her baby and she just wants to protect you. Maybe try a compromise. You outside alone near the house with lights on and a window open, or suggest she come sit with you every so often or offer to come check in every so often.

she wouldn't even let me sit on the porch which connected to a ~6ft wide window in the living room at our old house, which was over 3 1/2 acres away from any other house. Broad daylight mind you, but oh well.


They decided over night that my grandma is too weak for radiation
just waiting it out now to see if we get lucky and things look up


thank you both

grandmother passed away yesterday while I was at work